You were one of my best friends in High School. We shared so many moments of laughter and lightness. I should have kept in touch more. It may be easier for me to still be connected to my laughter and lightness had I stayed closer to your heartwarming smile and inspirational energy. We were bad boys and got into plenty of mischief, but when I was struggling, you were there, like a good big brother. 

I meet so many people traveling the world, and rarely have I come across such a genuinely warm heart as yours. I miss your smile. I will take two things from this tragedy. I will make sure that I live in the moment, for life is delicate as butterfly wings. And I will try to approach fellow human beings in the open-hearted and energetic way that you did. I pray that part of your shine can live on through me and that one day we can ride a wave together again in heaven. Thank you for for the love, companionship and inspiration! J.